Document every violation of your court order — so when you file for contempt, you walk in with proof, not memories.
Court orders only have weight if violations are documented. Memory fades; "I think it happened around April" loses contempt cases. This log fixes it: every violation gets a same-day entry with date, time, what specifically was violated, and what evidence supports it.
What's inside (4 pages):
- Cover + how-to-use guide with the three credibility rules
- Common violation types reference (9 categories: late exchange, refused parenting time, unilateral schedule change, missed support, disparagement, etc. — what to document for each)
- Master violation tracker (15 rows for summary; cross-references each entry to the detail log)
- Violation entry template (photocopy for each violation — provision violated, what happened, witnesses, evidence, effect on child)
The three credibility rules (built into every page):
1. Same-day entries. Log within 24 hours. Memory deteriorates fast.
2. Cite the specific provision. Don't write "she's not following the order." Write "Order dated 1/10/2024, Section 3.B requires Tuesday/Thursday pickup at 5pm."
3. Cross-reference exhibits. Every text, email, photo, app screenshot gets an exhibit number tagged to the violation.
Designed for:
- Pro se parents preparing a Motion for Contempt or Order to Show Cause
- Anyone whose ex isn't following the parenting plan, support order, or modification
- Documenting a pattern over time to support modification of the order
What you get: Instant download, 4-page printable PDF (8.5 × 11), photocopy the entry template for unlimited use, lifetime access.
Important: This log alone does not file a contempt motion. To pursue contempt, file a Motion for Contempt with the court, properly serve opposing party, and appear at a hearing. This log gives you the documentation that motion needs to succeed. Not legal advice.
Document every violation of your court order — so when you file for contempt, you walk in with proof, not memories.
Court orders only have weight if violations are documented. Memory fades; "I think it happened around April" loses contempt cases. This log fixes it: every violation gets a same-day entry with date, time, what specifically was violated, and what evidence supports it.
What's inside (4 pages):
- Cover + how-to-use guide with the three credibility rules
- Common violation types reference (9 categories: late exchange, refused parenting time, unilateral schedule change, missed support, disparagement, etc. — what to document for each)
- Master violation tracker (15 rows for summary; cross-references each entry to the detail log)
- Violation entry template (photocopy for each violation — provision violated, what happened, witnesses, evidence, effect on child)
The three credibility rules (built into every page):
1. Same-day entries. Log within 24 hours. Memory deteriorates fast.
2. Cite the specific provision. Don't write "she's not following the order." Write "Order dated 1/10/2024, Section 3.B requires Tuesday/Thursday pickup at 5pm."
3. Cross-reference exhibits. Every text, email, photo, app screenshot gets an exhibit number tagged to the violation.
Designed for:
- Pro se parents preparing a Motion for Contempt or Order to Show Cause
- Anyone whose ex isn't following the parenting plan, support order, or modification
- Documenting a pattern over time to support modification of the order
What you get: Instant download, 4-page printable PDF (8.5 × 11), photocopy the entry template for unlimited use, lifetime access.
Important: This log alone does not file a contempt motion. To pursue contempt, file a Motion for Contempt with the court, properly serve opposing party, and appear at a hearing. This log gives you the documentation that motion needs to succeed. Not legal advice.
